It is narrated on the authority of Tamim
ad-Dari that the Messenger of God (May peace and blessings be upon him) said: Devotion is an act of sincerity. The audience asked him:
Towards whom? He replied: Towards God, His Book, His Messenger and the leaders
and the general Muslims.
(Registered by Muslim in his “Collection
of Hadith”).
In one of my previous articles, I mentioned that there are
three kinds of covenants included in God’s Covenant (the first is between God
and man, the second is between man and his own self, and the third is between a
person and others).
In the Hadith quoted above the Great Prophet (peace and
God’s blessings be upon him) stressed the necessity of one being sincere in all
aspects of his/her conduct and behavior.
Reflecting over ordinances we find in the Qur’an and the
Prophet’s guidance, we could discover four circles around every person, among which
the nearest circle should get priority over the other circles in terms of
observing them: family and kinfolks, the neighborhood, the national circle, and
the Ummah (Religious Community as a whole).
The first circle (the
family and kinfolks)
Although we are ordered to treat all people excellently, yet
parents and grand parents should have the priority. Then the spouse and the children,
brothers and sisters, uncles and aunts, and all relations and kinfolks. The
Qur’an in so many chapters, and the Prophet on so many occasions, indicated this
matter. In addition, there are rules given to control and guide all members of
the family to exercise the righteous relations between one and another.
When a member of the family dies, his/her heritage should be
given to his/her relatives according to the degree of kinship, and there is a
very strict regulation (in the Qur’an and Hadith), which rules the distribution
of it. Moreover, before his/her death, one has no right to give out in terms of
his/her testament more than one third of his wealth outside the bounds of that
distribution. In addition, this portion of testament cannot be given to those
who have the right of receiving heritage.
The second circle (the
neighborhood)
Good relations between neighbors gets a highly importance place
in Islam. Both the Qur’an and Prophet’s guidance give a strong consideration neighbors
that should be observed by Muslims, even if their neighbors are non-Muslims.
The third circle (the
national citizenship)
When a country includes more than one ethnic or religious
community, there should be a common agreement to give every citizen equal
rights with the Muslim majority and every citizen has a fair dignity.
The fourth circle
(The Ummah)
The Ummah comprises all adherents of Islam wherever they
are, even as minorities in different countries. They all have the same faith
and they share the same wishes and goals. If anyone of them is religiously
oppressed s/he has the right to get help and support from other Muslims
wherever they are, especially from Muslim countries.
Social Relations
Muslims are ordered to be good in their conduct with all
kinds of people, and they are advised to disregard any thing that could
possibly create problems. They are required not to concern themselves with anything
regarding which they have no knowledge: “And never concern yourselves with anything
of which you have no knowledge: verily, the hearing and the sight and the heart
– all of them – will be called to account for it (on Judgment Day)” (17:36).
Islam urges people to be sincere in all their dealings. Any
sexual relation between a man and a woman should be only possible through legal
marriage. Sincerity must prevail at all times: before marriage, during
marriage, and even (if happens) after the dissolution of marriage.
In the Qur’an we find a chapter called “The Light”, which
clarifies several regulations for the Muslim community, that deal mainly with
marriage, modesty, and appropriate behavior in the household. In this chapter
God warns the believers not to involve in slander. Those, who accuse honorable,
unwary believing women of adultery, are rejected by God in this life and the
next one.
A painful punishment awaits them on the Day when their own
tongues, hands, and feet will testify against them about what they have done
(see 24:23-24).
And to protect individuals against possible slander, God
forbids them to enter houses of other people unless they have obtained
permission, and they have to greet their inmates (see 24:27).
The rule of modesty applies to men as well as women: they
should “lower their gaze” and “guard their chastity”, both in the literal sense
of “covering one’s private parts” (as modesty in dress) and in the metonymical
sense of “restraining one’s sexual urges” restricting them to what is lawful,
namely, marital intercourse (see 24:30-31).
There is also a chapter called “Al-Hujurat” (= The Private
Rooms). It guides the believers as to how to behave with respect towards their
leader, and with mutual respect and trust towards each other. This chapter
stresses the unity of mankind and God’s intention that people should live
together in harmony.
Business
Interactions
In their business interactions, Muslims are urged to be
sincere and far from cheating others: “Woe to those who give short measure:
those who, when they are to receive their due from (other) people, demand that
it be given in full – but when they have to measure or weigh whatever they owe
to others, give less than what is due. Do they not know that they are bound to
be raised from the dead (and called to account) on a mighty Day – the Day when
all human beings shall stand before the Lord of all the worlds?!” (83:1-6).
This paragraph refers certainly to commercial dealings, yet
it touches also upon every aspect of social relations, both practical and
moral, applying to every individual’s rights and obligations.
This is briefly to conclude the talk about one aspect of
God’s Covenant, which is the Covenant between a person and other people, and
which every believer is urged to fulfill.
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